Who Am I?
Hi! My Name Is Zia.
Zia Bossenmeyer is a Conscious Love & Dating Mentor who helps women transform their relationship patterns, embody deeper confidence, and invite in emotionally mature, soul-aligned partnership. Her work is grounded in a blend of spirituality, feminine embodiment, energy healing, and practical dating psychology—guiding women to break old cycles and attract the secure love they truly desire.
My spiritual journey began at age twenty, during a painful relationship betrayal that marked the beginning of my spiritual awakening. For years afterward, I chased love hoping someone else would fill the wounds within me—yet the same heartbreak patterns repeated. At thirty, I hit a turning point. Tired of feeling unchosen and unworthy, I committed to stepping away from dating entirely to heal at the deepest level. I understood that I was the common denominator, and the healing had to begin from within.
Over the next eleven years, I immersed myself in reading books, therapy, life-coaching, embodiment work, inner-child healing, boundary work, and nervous system regulation tools. I learned to shift from insecure and anxious to confident, grounded, and self-assured. I learned to have dating standards and I stopped asking, “Am I good enough for them?” and started asking, “Are they aligned enough for me?” I learned to choose secure partners instead of chaotic ones, and dating became not only easier—but joyful.
It took 11 years, but I finally met my life partner: someone kind, patient, loving, generous, emotionally present, and truly my best friend. A relationship where my own hobbies, interests and self is honored, teamwork is natural, and safety is the foundation—not something I has to fight for.
Now, I support women who are ready to rewrite their own patterns and step into the love they’ve always known was meant for them. Through my signature 6-month program, Soul-Aligned Partnership, I help women build confidence in dating, set non-negotiable standards in love, and cultivate the alignment required for deeply fulfilling partnership.
My Modalities
Energy Healing, Animal Communication, Tarot, Flower Essences, Herbs and Online Self-Paced Courses